What Are Anal Sex Toys?
Anal sex toys are sex toys made specifically to
stimulate the sensitive nerve endings in and around the rectum and anus.
This type of stimulation produces sensations unlike genital stimulation
and can lead to extremely powerful orgasms. Contrary to the belief of
many, men who enjoy anal stimulation are NOT gay. In fact, gay
and straight men alike have differing opinions on whether or not they
enjoy anal stimulation.
Anal stimulation in men is more so about
stimulating the prostate. The prostate is very similar to a
female's g-spot in that it produces an extremely deep and powerful climax
upon stimulation. The prostate can be stimulated externally by massaging
the perenium (the area behind the testicles and in front of the anus), or
internally and directly by anal stimulation either through the use of a
finger or anal sex toy.
What Types Of Anal Sex Toys Are Available?
The array of anal sex toys on the market today is
incredible! There are many sizes and shapes of anal toys, some to
stimulate externally, some internally and anal sex toys made of a variety
of materials. Anal sex toys also feature various functions as well as
being available in models that are unisex or made specifically for men and
women.
Butt Plugs
Butt
plugs are small, insertable anal sex toys and usually the first choice of
beginners. They come in a variety of girths as well as being constructed
of a variety of materials like glass and silicone.
Butt plugs have a larger bottom to prevent them from sliding
completely inside the rectum and some even have a t-shape for easier handling and manipulating. Butt plugs are also made in smooth
or textured
styles, inflatable
styles that grow larger when pumped and vibrating
models. For those who enjoy the vibrating
sensations, butt plugs are being made in an assortment
of high
tech models that may include pulsation,
rolling and surging functions.
Anal Probes
Anal probes are phallic shaped anal sex toys which
are usually smaller in girth and designed to be inserted into the rectum.
Just like dildos and vibrators made for the vagina, anal probes come in a
variety of choices. Rubber
models are extremely durable and much easier to
clean. Anal probes are also available in flexible
models, waterproof
models, some that vibrate and even models that light
up.
Anal
beads
Anal beads have been used for centuries in
the Orient specifically to give males prostate stimulation and a g-spot
type orgasm. Anal beads are inserted into the anus. Once behind the
sphincter muscle, the beads work their way under the prostate via the
muscle contractions induced by sexual stimulation. At the point of climax,
the beads are pulled out slowly. This adds to the contractions of the
prostate, stimulating and "milking" the prostate, which causes a
deeper and more powerful orgasm. Although the beads were initially
designed for men, many women enjoy the sensation of anal beads during
orgasm as well.
Anal beads are designed with a loop or handle on
the end to control insertion and removal. They come in a variety of
different styles including beads threaded onto a durable
string. This type is more difficult to clean, but
are inexpensive and can be disposable. There are also styles of anal
beads that are graduated in size and are a one piece design, either
in jelly or flexible
silicone. This particular type of anal bead is more
expensive, but much easier to clean and reuse. Anal beads also come in
more durable, rubber
models as well as models
that vibrate for an even more amazing
sensation.
Anal Sex Toys For
Her
The anal toys we've covered so far are unisex
and can be enjoyed by women and men alike, but there are anal toys made
specifically for women. Some of the anal sex toys for women include
sex toys with anal stimulators, which only stimulate the anus and do not
penetrate. These type of anal sex toys can be found in models of cock
rings as well as vaginal
vibrators. Some insertable varieties of anal sex
toys for women include the dildo
type models (with no vibrating functions), strap
on styles as well as high-tech
models with triple stimulating functions. These
types of sex toys are enjoyed by women alone or with a
partner.
Anal Sex Toys For
Him
Why should women have all of the high-tech
sex toy gadgets? While anal beads, butt plugs and anal probes can be
enjoyed by men, there are anal sex toys made just for boys. Some butt
plugs are designed with a curved
tip in order to directly stimulate the prostate and
induce amazing climaxes. There are also thrusters designed for men, which are similar to dildos for women, but made for anal
use. Anal sex toys for men also come in high-tech
models that stimulate not only the prostate, but
provide massaging stimulation to both the scrotum and testicles as well.
My Husband And I Have Tried Anal Sex Toys Before
And It Hurt! Are We Doing Something Wrong?
Using anal sex toys can cause pain and
discomfort if not used correctly. First and foremost, you must remember
that the rectum does not produce lubrication as does the vagina.. therefore, you will need to use ample amounts of lubricant. The type of
lubricant you use depends on the type of anal sex toys you use. A
universal lubricant that is safe for use with anal sex toys of all
materials is a water
based lubricant. Silicone
lubricants are also safe for use with most sex toys
and are longer lasting. Oil
based lubricants are thicker and ideal for anal
use, however, they are not compatible with sex toys that are made of latex
or latex combinations.
The next thing to keep in mind when
trying anal sex toys is to relax and take your time. Try some exterior
anal stimulation first so that you learn to relax. You can try simple butt
plugs that vary in size, gradually working your way
up to something larger. In addition, you may want to include a clitoral
stimulator or ask your partner to stimulate your
clitoris manually. The more aroused you are, the easier it is to relax and
enjoy the sensations of anal play and anal sex toys.
Isn't Playing With Anal Sex Toys Dirty?
Anal sex toys have been used for centuries. Some
people enjoy using them, some do not...and for various reasons. Some
believe that it is "dirty", while others just don't enjoy the
sensation. You can clean up anal play somewhat by following a few
tips:
1) Shower or bathe beforehand, paying close attention to the
anal area.
2) Make sure you have had a bowel movement that day.
This dramatically lessens the chance of toys coming out "dirty".
3)
Use an enema beforehand. Do not use enemas on a regular basis though as it
can interrupt your body's normal bowel functions.
After
considering these steps you still find anal sex toy use to be dirty, it
simply isn't something for you. That's okay too, there are a lot
of other amazing things we can do to pleasure ourselves and our partners!
How Do I Clean My Anal Sex Toys?
Care and cleaning of anal sex toys is extremely
important. Check your anal sex toy package for cleaning instructions.
Some anal sex toys are durable enough to allow sterilization
by boiling them. You can also clean your anal sex toys with very hot
water and an antibacterial hand soap. Dry and store your anal sex toys in
a clean area, away from heat sources and direct sunlight. Before each use,
be sure and inspect your anal sex toys for drying and cracking. Small
cracks can harbor bacteria and increase your risk for infection. If your
anal sex toy displays any dryness or cracked areas, throw it away and shop
for a new one.
I'd Like My Partner To Experience A Prostate
Orgasm. How Do I Talk Him Into It?
Trying anal sex toys can be a touchy subject for
some people. Educate your partner about prostate orgasms. Once
you explain the mechanics behind it and the opportunities for him to
experience incredible orgasms, he may be willing to try. Start slowly
by stimulating the prostate externally. You can do this by using your
fingers or a bullet to massage and stimulate the perenium while manually or orally
stimulating his penis. From there, he may be willing to try internal
stimulation. However, if he is resistant to trying anal sex toys,
never force or try and guilt him into doing it. There are plenty of other
ways to broaden your sexual horizons and have incredible sex together. |
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