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Anal Sex Toys FAQ

What Are Anal Sex Toys?

Anal sex toys are sex toys made specifically to stimulate the sensitive nerve endings in and around the rectum and anus. This type of stimulation produces sensations unlike genital stimulation and can lead to extremely powerful orgasms. Contrary to the belief of many, men who enjoy anal stimulation are NOT gay. In fact, gay and straight men alike have differing opinions on whether or not they enjoy anal stimulation.

Anal stimulation in men is more so about stimulating the prostate. The prostate is very similar to a female's g-spot in that it produces an extremely deep and powerful climax upon stimulation. The prostate can be stimulated externally by massaging the perenium (the area behind the testicles and in front of the anus), or internally and directly by anal stimulation either through the use of a finger or anal sex toy.

What Types Of Anal Sex Toys Are Available?

The array of anal sex toys on the market today is incredible! There are many sizes and shapes of anal toys, some to stimulate externally, some internally and anal sex toys made of a variety of materials. Anal sex toys also feature various functions as well as being available in models that are unisex or made specifically for men and women.

Butt Plugs

Butt plugs are small, insertable anal sex toys and usually the first choice of beginners. They come in a variety of girths as well as being constructed of a variety of  materials like glass and silicone. Butt plugs have a larger bottom to prevent them from sliding completely inside the rectum and some even have a t-shape for easier handling and manipulating. Butt plugs are also made in smooth or  textured styles, inflatable styles that grow larger when pumped and vibrating models. For those who enjoy the vibrating sensations, butt plugs are being made in an assortment of high tech models that may include pulsation, rolling and surging functions.

Anal Probes 

Anal probes are phallic shaped anal sex toys which are usually smaller in girth and designed to be inserted into the rectum. Just like dildos and vibrators made for the vagina, anal probes come in a variety of choices. Rubber models are extremely durable and much easier to clean. Anal probes are also available in flexible models, waterproof models, some that vibrate and even models that light up.

Anal beads

Anal beads have been used for centuries in the Orient specifically to give males prostate stimulation and a g-spot type orgasm. Anal beads are inserted into the anus. Once behind the sphincter muscle, the beads work their way under the prostate via the muscle contractions induced by sexual stimulation. At the point of climax, the beads are pulled out slowly. This adds to the contractions of the prostate, stimulating and "milking" the prostate, which causes a deeper and more powerful orgasm. Although the beads were initially designed for men, many women enjoy the sensation of anal beads during orgasm as well.

Anal beads are designed with a loop or handle on the end to control insertion and removal. They come in a variety of different styles including beads threaded onto a durable string. This type is more difficult to clean, but are inexpensive and can be disposable. There are also styles of anal beads that are graduated in size and are a one piece design, either in jelly or flexible silicone. This particular type of anal bead is more expensive, but much easier to clean and reuse. Anal beads also come in more durable, rubber models as well as models that vibrate for an even more amazing sensation.

Anal Sex Toys For Her

The anal toys we've covered so far are unisex and can be enjoyed by women and men alike, but there are anal toys made specifically for women. Some of the anal sex toys for women include sex toys with anal stimulators, which only stimulate the anus and do not penetrate. These type of anal sex toys can be found in models of cock rings as well as vaginal vibrators. Some insertable varieties of anal sex toys for women include the dildo type models (with no vibrating functions), strap on styles as well as high-tech models with triple stimulating functions. These types of sex toys are enjoyed by women alone or with a partner.

Anal Sex Toys For Him

Why should women have all of the high-tech sex toy gadgets? While anal beads, butt plugs and anal probes can be enjoyed by men, there are anal sex toys made just for boys. Some butt plugs are designed with a curved tip in order to directly stimulate the prostate and induce amazing climaxes. There are also thrusters designed for men, which are similar to dildos for women, but made for anal use. Anal sex toys for men also come in high-tech models that stimulate not only the prostate, but provide massaging stimulation to both the scrotum and testicles as well.

My Husband And I Have Tried Anal Sex Toys Before And It Hurt! Are We Doing Something Wrong?

Using anal sex toys can cause pain and discomfort if not used correctly. First and foremost, you must remember that the rectum does not produce lubrication as does the vagina.. therefore, you will need to use ample amounts of lubricant. The type of lubricant you use depends on the type of anal sex toys you use. A universal lubricant that is safe for use with anal sex toys of all materials is a water based lubricant. Silicone lubricants are also safe for use with most sex toys and are longer lasting. Oil based lubricants are thicker and ideal for anal use, however, they are not compatible with sex toys that are made of latex or latex combinations. 

The next thing to keep in mind when trying anal sex toys is to relax and take your time. Try some exterior anal stimulation first so that you learn to relax. You can try simple butt plugs that vary in size, gradually working your way up to something larger. In addition, you may want to include a clitoral stimulator or ask your partner to stimulate your clitoris manually. The more aroused you are, the easier it is to relax and enjoy the sensations of anal play and anal sex toys.

Isn't Playing With Anal Sex Toys Dirty?

Anal sex toys have been used for centuries. Some people enjoy using them, some do not...and for various reasons. Some believe that it is "dirty",  while others just don't enjoy the sensation. You can clean up anal play somewhat by following a few tips:

1) Shower or bathe beforehand, paying close attention to the anal area.

2) Make sure you have had a bowel movement that day. This dramatically lessens the chance of toys coming out "dirty".

3) Use an enema beforehand. Do not use enemas on a regular basis though as it can interrupt your body's normal bowel functions.

After considering these steps you still find anal sex toy use to be dirty, it simply isn't something for you. That's okay too, there are a lot of other amazing things we can do to pleasure ourselves and our partners!

How Do I Clean My Anal Sex Toys? 

Care and cleaning of anal sex toys is extremely important. Check your anal sex toy package for cleaning instructions. Some anal sex toys are durable enough to allow sterilization by boiling them. You can also clean your anal sex toys with very hot water and an antibacterial hand soap. Dry and store your anal sex toys in a clean area, away from heat sources and direct sunlight. Before each use, be sure and inspect your anal sex toys for drying and cracking. Small cracks can harbor bacteria and increase your risk for infection. If your anal sex toy displays any dryness or cracked areas, throw it away and shop for a new one.

I'd Like My Partner To Experience A Prostate Orgasm. How Do I Talk Him Into It?

Trying anal sex toys can be a touchy subject for some people. Educate  your partner about prostate orgasms. Once you explain the mechanics behind it and the opportunities for him to experience incredible orgasms, he may be willing to try. Start slowly by stimulating the prostate externally. You can do this by using your fingers or a bullet to massage and stimulate the perenium while manually or orally stimulating his penis. From there, he may be willing to try internal stimulation. However, if he is resistant to trying anal sex toys, never force or try and guilt him into doing it. There are plenty of other ways to broaden your sexual horizons and have incredible sex together.











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