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Wants Erection to Last

Jack wants his erection to last longer during intercourse. He asks how to have this longer-lasting erection after his ex-girlfriend boasts about her new all-night sexual activities. Abby gives her sex advice to help Jack's situation.

Wants Erection to Last Question


I want my erection to last longer during intercourse.

I have recently had a messy split with my girlfriend of 3 years. She's already found herself another sexual partner and I stupidly enquired how things were. She had told me that they were able to have sex nearly 10 times in a night, nonstop. It's made me feel very inadequate as we rarely managed more than a few times in a night, when we went a second time I occasionally lost an erection during intercourse and my recovery time was often long.

Can you give me any advice how to sustain a longer, repeated sexual experience? This has severely dented my confidence. I do masturbate occasionally could this be affecting my performance as I find, if I don't do this, my performance is usually short- lived to start with.


Wants Erection to Last Answer

Dear Jack,

Nothing you've said makes it seem that anything's wrong with you. Masturbation will increase staying power and the second time around, it will be harder to keep an erection. That's fairly typical. Of course there are guys who can perform more and others who can't perform as much, but you really do seem to be right in the middle here.

If you want to learn a variety of sex techniques for improving performance, go here. They have info on pretty much all sexual topics relating to male sexuality.

The biggest problem here you already stated when you said that you stupidly enquired how things were. There's no reason at all to give a crap about her private sex life. It's her sex life now, not yours. And regardless of how things actually are with her in this area, for her to tell you how great it is clearly demonstrates a lack of any regard to your feelings and almost suggests she doesn't care about you at all.

Suppose you broke up with a woman who was bummed about the breakup. Now suppose you really did care about her as a person and a friend. Would you tell her how much better in bed your new girlfriend was? Of course not! 

Forget about her and her private life. It's none of your business and won't make you feel good even if was. Find someone who tells you things that improve your confidence, not undermine it. If you want to improve performance and for your erection to last longer, visit the link I suggested above, and only focus on your sex life not anyone else's lives. -Abby

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