Ladies! This One’s For You
Do you know how to have sex? Does your partner? Even if what you’re doing together is good…we think you’d like to know a way to make things better. Well, here’s one suggestion: Get to know your erogenous zones and then introduce them to your partner.
Men definitely know how to have sex. It’s second nature. But a man isn’t born knowing how to have sex that will please his partner as much as himself. That’s where YOU come in. You can lead him by the hand…literally…and introduce him to all the parts of your body that go wild with desire when stimluated.
Once you’ve made your introductions, you can sit back, relax and become the multi-orgasmic woman you’ve always wanted to be. Isn’t that the goal of knowing how to have sex?
EAR-GASM
Every how to have sex manual should include this. Ask your partner to nibble and gently suck on your earlobe, then lick the center of your ear. Doing this alone with a certain facility (and with a certain woman) can bring her to orgasm.
This phenomenon is called the auricologenital reflex and occurs as a result of a nerve inside the ear canal being stimulated. (Take it easy – that’s our last science lesson!).
Fancy Footwork
How to have sex is a head to toe operation. Women have pedicures for more than just the color. A foot message is sensual and, if the right person is doing it, extremely sexual. Have your partner start by applying light pressure on your sole and heel Next, let him gently stroke your toes and ankle.
Tip within a Tip: The hollow area on the sides of the ankle, between the anklebone and the Achilles tendon, is an acupressure point believed to help restore sexual energy. Don’t miss it.
From One Set of Lips to the Other
Here’s another important lesson from this how to have sex crash course. Get to know the frenulum -- that little bit of center tissue that connects the upper lip and the gums. This is a pressure point that sends messages straight to a woman’s private parts.
Ask your partner to gently suck on your upper lip and to allow his lower lip to caress your frenulum. If this is one of your personal ‘hot spots,’ you’ll see (and feel) a reaction immediately.
Above and Beyond the Call of Booty
Have your partner apply a gentle touch--just barely grazing the skin--to the sacrum, the area of your lower back just above the tailbone. As your skin heats up under your partner’s hand, have him apply increasing pressure to either side of your spine…but not directly on it.
Then have him move lower to massage the tops of your buttocks. Try it. You’ll ll like it.
Expanding the Zone
When properly stimulated, your entire body becomes an erogenous zone, sending sexy electrical impulses to the brain from such likely places as the sides of the legs, the chest, even the elbows. Simply allow your partner to glide his hands down your whole body from your armpits to your legs, then back up again.
If he does it right, you’ll be squirming with delight. And your partner will get an A+ from the teacher in his how to have sex course.
