Many couples are looking to experiment with each other. Fisting, or often referred to as fist fucking, something you might want to check out. This is not necessarily about putting a complete clenched fist into your partners vagina, instead all five fingers are kept tight and straight while insert.
Here are a few types if you're planning to try:
- In order for the vaginal walls to open wide enough for your hand to fit, your partner must be highly aroused and relaxed.
- Fisting can be very intense, so make sure if your partner needs to stop, that you do. She should be the one in charge of this situation.
- Plan to use lots of lubricant.
- Insert one or two fingers at a time. She may enjoy clitoral stimulation as you do this.
- Try and get your hand as small as possible. Cup your four fingers around your thumb so your hand is a skinny as it can get.
- With your knuckles facing the bottom of her vagina, slowly rotate your hand, while gently pushing your hand in.
- Getting your knuckles through is the most difficult part. Add more lube if needed. Your partner should be breathing deep breaths and trying to relax.
- A slight rotation of the wrist should be all you need to get past her pubic bone and inside her vagina.
- Your hand will naturally curl up once inside. Once you are inside you can hold still, gently move in and out, or gently rotate your wrist.
- Fisting can be intense and make you partner feel vulnerable. Remember it is her pleasure you are after. Respect her wishes.
Tips:
- Not all women will be able to tolerate fisting. If she can't handle it, stop!
- Lube! Lube! Lube! And more Lube!
- Communication is essential in an intense act like fisting. Make sure you and your partner understand each other.
