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You just don't have the sex drive you used to - you're busy, tired, and stressed all the time, so who has the energy to devote to sex nowadays? Maybe it's more than that though - before you always found time to sneak in some quality time for love making with your partner. Chances are that your hormones are to blame for your lack of interest in being intimate with your partner.

Have you ever dreaded special occasions because you feel pressure to buy a memorable gift for someone you care about? As a sexologist, I understand the challenges of buying something that is unique enough to make it unforgettable. This can be a great source of anxiety. Of course I'm expected to come up with creative, fun and untraditional ideas all the time, and I love giving impressive gifts so I'd like to share some of my favorite gifts of love with you.

Are you ready to really tell your lover what you want to do to him or her, but you're scared you'll blush and ruin the whole thing? Why do you think telephones were invented?

There's nothing safer to start with than using somebody else's words. If you're not ready to tell your partner your fantasies yourself, invest in an erotic book and try reading your lover a story at bedtime. We'd suggest getting a collection of stories like The Erotic Edge or Delta of Venus.

Tell your partner how much you love their various body parts, their eyes, the way your partner looks at you when you make love, and the way he or she smells. Praise all the things about him or her you really do love, and praise those body parts while caressing or kissing them. Remember, though, there's always the chance that this will make your partner self conscious, so stay aware. Pay attention to how your partner is reacting. Is he or she responding and getting excited or are they giggling and seeming uncomfortable?

Have you ever watched Striptease and thought, "Why the hell am I watching this movie?" And then, perhaps, "I've always wanted to spin around a pole like that." Would you be surprised to know you're not alone?

The truth is, most women I've talked to have, at one time or another, fantasized about being a stripper. Many have even tried out some moves on their lovers. Sound like fun? It is! A striptease is a great way to show your partner how sexy you think you are, and believe me, he or she will agree.

Step 1: Preparation

The squeeze technique is used to slow down ejaculation. It can be used as part of a love session, but it can also help when the male comes too quickly. If he habitually comes extremely quickly, say almost immediately upon entering the vagina, or even before that, it is probably better to look for sexological help, because extreme premature ejaculation is best treated with medication.

This is when you start talking dirty. One note, by the way: when you're talking about sexual acts with your partner in bed, you should use the words that will really turn you both on. If more hard-core words for sexual acts get you going, use those. But if softer descriptions are more comfortable, stick to those. There are four ways to go here: