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Playing with Breasts Article

Female Body  Advice

Last time I talked in general terms about breasts and having fun with them. This time I want to get a bit more specific and give you some suggestions on how to work on your woman's breasts and what will give her the best sensations and what won't. No two girls are the same so what works for me and many other women may not work on your partner; let's face it, there are some girls out there who don't want their breasts to be touched by anyone. Personally I love guys playing with my breasts and whenever my partner and I are just cuddling I'm not happy unless he spends some time fondling my breasts, after all my breasts are there for a reason, and that reason is HIM.

Obviously you all realize that breasts come in all shapes and sizes from very small up to very large. I've had fun with a girl who really had no breasts at all—just very large nipples. On the other hand my natural Ds, while big, are not the biggest natural breasts out there. I am sure that you have all seen pics on various websites of women with natural breasts up to sizes so big that they would kill you if they ever fell on you. It's just as well that girls' breasts come in all shapes and sizes because guys' tastes differ too. Some guys love women with very little up top, my friend with nothing but nipples has no shortage of guys who want to get her into bed. Other guys like flirting with potential injury and only want to play with the biggest breasts they can find and in between there are guys who just like breasts—no matter what size they come in. I suppose with all this variation and interest in girls' breasts it was not long before scientists began looking at them too (the little perverts!).

Now there is an excuse if ever I heard one: Why didn't they just say they wanted to look at breasts because they like looking at breasts? I know a couple of scientists intimately and they're just as randy as any other guy, but they do like to be discreet so I guess hiding their interest behind a scientific study into breasts is understandable. The studies have shown that while women with big breasts have the most fun it's the women with the perky little breasts that have the most sensation. Evidently the longer you stretch nerve fiber the less amount of sensation that is passed along it so women with little breasts have shorter nerve fibers than women with big breasts. This means that when you lick or nibble a small breast you will produce more sensation for the owner of that breast and give her a bigger buzz than you will give a girl who has big or droopy breasts.

When talking about breasts it's impossible to overlook those wonderful little brown thingies that sit on the end of most breasts: the nipples. Big nipples have lots of nerve endings in them and when given the right sort of attention these nerve endings can send a girl into orgasm very easily—I know from personal experience. On the other hand big nipples can be over sensitive and produce so much sensation that it becomes painful for the girl. So tread warily until you know how much sensation your woman gets from her big nipples. Small nipples tend to be less sensitive and for many girls with small nipples the areola (the brown circular area around the nipple) is more sensitive. The area on the areola between 10 and 2 is the place to play. A small percentage of girls have inverted nipples but they get just as much sensation from sucking, licking and touching as other girls do.

So in case you're wondering, here is what works for me. If you're going to suck my breasts then you should definitely not suck so hard you are going to bruise me—no girl likes to be damaged like that, especially an escort because bruising will cost her money. Instead don't be too gentle either, just a nice firm suck and while you're doing it run your tongue around my nipples and I'll get so wet you will be able to feel my juices running all over you. If you want to nibble, be gentle—hold my nipples in your teeth and gently pull. You will very quickly hear how loudly I can moan. If you want to touch my breasts then cup them in your hands and squeeze gently or even run your fingers lightly around the areola and flick the nipples gently now and again. Treat me like that and you'll get special treatment in return every time.

Now I suppose I should tell you what the experts say will please a woman. I'm not sure what qualifies these people as experts seeing that they are all men but I do want to give you a balanced view. The experts suggest that if your woman has big breasts then she gets the best sensation while lying on her back and you should concentrate on the outside of the breasts below the armpits and use your tongue and fingertips with a light flicking motion. A little nibbling may be good too. After reading that all I can say is that I'm glad I don't have those experts playing with my breasts.

As I said before, that is not going to apply to everyone and it certainly doesn't apply to me. If it's a guy I like then nothing gets me hornier than sitting on his penis while he sucks, nibbles, and plays. The sensation when I'm lying on my back is nice too but it isn't anywhere near as good as what I get when I'm on top. If your woman has small breasts the experts suggest that you should gently bounce her breasts around in the cups of your hands, remembering that small breasts are much more sensitive than big ones. If your lady is breastfeeding an infant then you should be as gentle as you can because the baby has probably tried to suck her breasts off her chest. Be patient with her if she doesn't want you to touch her breasts and if she does then you should concentrate on the underside.

Finally there are those women who have filled up their chest with silicon for whatever reason. If done correctly implants will not affect the sensations that the girl will get when you play with her breasts. These women seem to get the most sensation when you start away from their nipples and gradually move your tongue or fingers in towards the nipples. So there you have a ton of information about breasts and how to handle them. Perhaps you think you don't need this sort of information. Unfortunately it is my experience that the vast majority of guys who see me have no idea what to do when presented with a pair of eager breasts just begging to be handled correctly.











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