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How to Orgasm Faster

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You have a really great site here, but I couldn't find advice on my issue about how to orgasm faster (it might be a bit unusual for a guy). I require a lot of time and effort to reach orgasm, regardless of whether I masturbate or have sexual intercourse. My lady appreciates this, but for my own sake I'd like to be able to cum quickly and easily sometimes (I could do it more often if I could!). On average I probably masturbate on 2 out of every 3 days. Sometimes I "binge" on a weekend and do it 3 times in a day, but then I won't for most of the rest of the week; either way, unless I'm REALLY turned on to begin with, it takes me a long time (perhaps around half an hour or more). I don't have problems getting erections, but getting excited enough to cum is difficult. Wearing a condom makes it nearly impossible. I'm 30 years old, but have been this way since early in my 20s. Am I not physically sensitive enough, or is it psychological? I'll be very thankful for any advice.

- Nick

It is possible that you aren't very sensitive and it's also possible that it's psychological. Most likely though it's physical and the psychological problem comes from the distraction of not being able to achieve an orgasm as quick as you like. Fix the physical part and the psychological will follow.

To create more sensitivity, there are a few different creams and pills that will increase blood flow to your penis which will make it more sensitive. These are typically called as penis enlargement solutions because the improved blood flow and increased sensitivity will make your erection stronger (and of course larger during the time of your erection). It is questionable whether or not they permanently increase size, but they will make things feel more intense down there which may be what you need during sex.

There are three of these products I endorse that you could try. None of them work in 100% of men (although I've never had someone I sent there write me back to complain), but I only recommend products that are safe AND offer a 100%, money-back guarantee, so if one doesn't work, send it back and try another.

Menzyme and VigRX are herbal supplements that you take daily. They increases blood flow which improves erection strength. VigRX Oil is similar to VigRX but comes in cream form that works faster than the pills, but of course needs to be used during foreplay. Visit their sites and you can read all about them.

One final note is that if you are on any type of medication, it can easily be the cause of all this. The medications most likely to cause this are any of the antidepressant or anti-anxiety medications. Drugs like Paxil, Prozac, Celexa, and so on are notorious for affecting different parts of a person's sex life. The good news though is that just because one of them has this side effect, it doesn't mean that another will. If you work closely with your doctor they can lmost always find the correct medicine or dosage for you.












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