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Sexual interest and relationships question: I've been dating my girlfriend for 14 months now and we haven't really gone anywhere. She doesn't show sexual interest or want to do anything sexual. We've never talked about it very much but its starting to bother me. I fingered her twice and she doesn't respond to it at all and I'm not sure if she likes it. I really want to give her oral sex and for her to give it to me but she doesn't seem comfortable with the idea. My parents are going away next weekend and I'd really like to have a romantic evening with her. Please help.

- Bill

You actually just answered your own question when you said that you "never talk about it very much" and that "you're not sure if she likes it." That's the problem. You need to ask her and tell her what you just told me. Try to figure out why she doesn't want to go further or whether or not she likes what has happened so far. If her apparent lack of interest in things sexual bothers you, tell her that also.

I could give you a hundred different possibilities about what might be her reasons for not showing an interest in sexual intercourse, but it's a lot easier for you to ask her and get the correct one. If she isn't interested in talking about it, that's a whole separate issue we can deal with then. For now though, give her the chance to tell you what you need to know.












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