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Orgasms  Advice

I'm a virgin and I've never had an orgasm with somebody else but I'm worried about the orgasm sounds I should make. I don't want my orgasm sounds to make me sound like a freak. What should I do?

- Joanne

The only bad orgasm sounds are none at all. Most men derive some of their self esteem from being able to please a woman and the rest just enjoy knowing that they can. Make any kind of noise that feels right to you and they will enjoy it. The more the better. As far as sounding like a freak, men want a freak in bed. They may not want that in any other areas of life or relationships, but in bed ... the freakier, the better. The worst that can happen if you are totally loud and crazy is that he will tell other people that you are a "screamer." This might be a bit embarrassing for about 5 minutes until you realize that now lots of other guys want to date you. (Oh what power we women have over men).

You also get to use the sounds you make to teach your partner what you like. If you breathe heavily while he's licking your nipples, yet moan loudly when he kisses your thighs, he should begin to learn to kiss your thighs more. If you want more of something, be louder when moaning and tell him how much you want, need, and desire the specific thing that feels so amazing.

Faking orgasms is a horrible idea because your partner learns that you orgasm from something you don't enjoy. Your partner will use all of this feedback to decide how to do it next time, and if you teach him wrong, he will perform wrong. So all this really means is that you should do what comes naturally and everything will be good.

If you are really unsure, rent an adult video and listen to the porn stars in it. They are performing primarily for the benefit of men so it should give you an idea of what many men like. The best advice when it comes to noise in bed is to simply enjoy yourself and make any orgasm sounds that are natural for your. Express what you feel and like by talking, sharing what you like, doing whatever feels good for you, and making any sounds you like.

—Abby

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



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