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Multiple Orgasms Questions and Answers

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My girlfriend and I have very good mind bending sex, but she doesn't have multiple orgasms. In fact, we both have explosive orgasms every single time we have sex. I don't have a problem having multiple orgasms, but I have been with my girlfriend for over two years and have never been able to make her experience multiple orgasms in a single sex act, even after plenty of attempts. Does age or female libido have anything to do with this?

We are both in our twenties. Don't get me wrong, we are very satisfied with our sexual relationship, but is it possible for my girlfriend to have multiple orgasms. If so, any advice on how to achieve this will be appreciated and I think would make our relationship a little better.

First off, its important to know that a woman can be completely satisfied with just one orgasm. Some women will never have more than one and it won't ever be a problem. During sex, men are often too focused on the destination, when for women its all about the journey.

Having said that, I do enjoy sex more since I became multi-orgasmic and wouldn't want to go back!

The way I learned to have multiple orgasms was by using the Eroscillator. In fact it became easy to have as many orgasms as I like. Since I became multi-orgasmic while using that toy, I've also learned to have multiple orgasms during sexual intercourse, cunnilingus , and every other way I can think of. Seriously, I rave about the Eroscillator throughout this site because it really is that good. Although recently I have tested my inexpensive, durable Hitachi and love it too.

Let her have control over the vibrator, especially at first, and don't even bring up the O word. Let her sit atop you (or some other position where she can have control and access to her clitoris). Just relax and let her play until she's done. Don't even ask her for the first 20 or so times if she had more than one orgasm. Women never respond well to pressure in bed. If you don't bring it up for a while it will give her a chance to relax and that's most likely when it will happen. She's not going to have her first multiple orgasm while thinking about how much you will or will not be pleased by the result.

One more time for emphasis: Women don't respond to pressure in bed. Even if you don't think you're pressuring her, you might be. Talk to her and give her the opportunity to be honest with you. If she says that you're pressuring her, you probably are.

In answer to your other question, yes, age can be a factor in every area of sexual health, especially for women. We typically evolve sexually as we age because our inhibitions fall away and we learn more and more about our bodies.

—Abby Another way to increase the likelihood of multiple orgasms, or at least make the one you have more intense, is by using Vigorelle. This is a recent discovery for me, but it really works and I like to add it to my clitoris sometimes to intensify orgasms.











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