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Hi Abby. I hope you don't mind me talking about my fetish, but never really been able to do it...

My fetish is carrying or watching looking at pictures of women being carried over the shoulder. I just love the way their bodies are so limp and hang down helplessly with their hair dangling and feeling their arms rub against your butt. I also love the way their butts looks. It's important what they wear eg tight trousers or short skirts. I actually went out with a girl just because I could do this with her!

Problem is my fetish is the main thing that turns me on. Also I hate the idea of it happening to girls I care about. I'm in a serious relationship and have spoken to her about it but never done it with her although she is interested. Then one day she showed me a photo of her being carried at a works Xmas do! I went mad and we rowed for ages. Secretly I still am annoyed. I know it sounds daft but I suppose I think it's quite humiliating-but then maybe this is what turns me on about it!

Problem is there are always women being carried over the shoulder in movies etc and I get a bit embarrassed although still turned on.

How can I not take it so seriously but just enjoy it? Does this happen to all women?

Thanks for your thoughts/advice,
I'm not a fetish expert, but I truly believe that if something turns you on and nobody gets hurt, go for it. And in fact, even hurting is ok if the decision to play this was and is consensual (everyone involved agrees to it).

If this gets you going and your partner is into it, go for it! Almost all good sex involves a compromise of sorts because different things turn each person on. As an added bonus, the simple fact that you are getting aroused could turn her on as the result is you both get really horny and have lots of fun!

Have you ever talked to her about her fetishes and/or fantasies. Once you know some of these, there's something you can do that I guarantee both of you will enjoy.

You can combine multiple fetishes/fantasies into fun roll playing sessions that meet both your needs. For example, if she fantasizes about stranger sex, roll play the stranger who "takes her away"...over your shoulder.

The only time to be concerned about your fetish is if it becomes the ONLY thing that works for you. If you need it rather than want it. If you aren't there then let her in and have a ball!












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