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My wife and I are having sex trouble. We are both first-timers; even though we are both 30. For the last month or so we have been trying to "get it in." It's erect, it does go off when manually stimulated BUT it just doesn't go in. It feels hard enough to squeeze in. I know where I'm headed for. And she's pretty lubricated from foreplay. What do you think the problem is? It may sound stupid, but could she be too small? Or when they say "rock" hard do they really mean it?
Perhaps your wife is plenty lubricated. Then again, perhaps she's not. If it's your first time then it may turn out that you guys are mistaken as to how much lubrication you will need. So the first thing to try is an artificial lubricant, such as saliva, baby oil, or ID Personal Lubricant.
I would recommend water-based lubricant such as Wet Light
and Wet Light
flavored lubricants, which work especially well for
oral sex.Also, try warming the area up with your fingers. The
vagina sometimes or often need a little warm up before a
penis can enter them. Even women who have had many partners and are very sexual can have a vagina that needs prep work (the least appealing phrase I've ever used to describe
foreplay). Take your time and work your way up from one finger to two fingers and possibly three fingers before you enter her.
Also, a female clitoral vibrator may help relax her vagina for sex. If she uses
the vibrator by herself
and begins to feel more relaxed and turned on without nerves, then this may work
as a type of foreplay. She may just be too nervous to relax and needs a little
massage to help the process along.
Finally, nothing will make a woman's vagina more difficult to enter than fear and anxiety. If it's your first time she may be more nervous then she lets on. Good communication in your relationship and sexual activities will be the most important thing for the two of you to make sure you have. You must
talk about all of this to get through your sex trouble.
—Abby
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