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How to Tips for Anal Sex


Exploring sexual boundaries with your partner is an excellent way to rekindle a dying flame or to take your relationship to the next level. One of the most pleasurable experiences for both a man and a woman can be experimenting with anal sex. The nerves around the anus are some of the most sensitive in the body and when done correctly, anal sex can be extremely pleasurable for a woman. Of course the man will love the tightness and sensuality of anal sex as well. If you're just getting started, consider the following how to tips for anal sex.

How to Tips for Anal Sex Step One : Discuss it With Your Partner

The first thing to consider if you're interested in trying anal sex is that you must be sure your partner is totally willing and into trying anal sex. Of course this doesn't mean that they won't be nervous the first time, and it might even be a bit awkward. However, if you find that your partner is only interested to please you, and they don't enjoy it at all, it's likely to affect your pleasure as well. Have an open dialogue with your partner, let them know that you're interested and discuss any concerns either of you might have.

How to Tips for Anal Sex Step Two : Get Prepared

Once you're sure that you and your partner are on the same page, you want to make sure that you're prepared. Lube is a must with anal sex and there are many types you can try. Some couples prefer a silicon based lube, while others like a water based option. Keep in mind that silicon based lubes are thicker and will provide more comfort, while water based lubes tend to need to be reapplied less often. Experiment with a few options to find the one that's best for you.

How to Tips for Anal Sex Step Three : Start Slow

After you've got your lube and you're ready to get started, be careful not to do too much too soon. As mentioned above, the nerves around the anus are extremely sensitive. This can mean intense pleasure, but it can also mean intense pain. Many couples like to start by inserting a finger into the ass during oral pleasure. This helps your partner to get used to the sensation and to gently loosen the muscles to allow for anal penetration.

How to Tips for Anal Sex Step Four : Make it Sexy

One of the biggest problems that couples can have as they begin is overcoming any shyness or awkwardness. Remember that anal sex does take practice. If you try it the first time and find it to be painful or uncomfortable, don't immediately assume that it's not for you. Try a different lube, try moving more slowly or simply try it when you're more aroused. Make sure to keep talking about your preferences but be careful to avoid talking about it in solely clinical terms. Try reading or watching pornography that centers around anal sex and pay attention to what turns you on.

How to Tips for Anal Sex Step Five : Keep Going at it

Once you've tried anal a time or two, you'll find that it becomes more comfortable and more pleasurable. Keep an open dialogue and let your partner know what's exciting you. Try new positions and new types of lube to keep the experience fresh. You can also try toys that provide double penetration, to take it to another level. Many men in relationships also like to be anally penetrated with strap-ons, which can be a new way to enjoy anal sex together.



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