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How to Enjoy Sex Without Orgasms


These days, there seems to be so much emphasis on getting off that some people think their partner can't be satisfied without an orgasm. Remember that sex is only partially physical it's partially emotional as well. Couples can have a wonderful sexual and sensual evening together, even if neither one has an orgasm. Following are a few tips on how to sexually enjoy each other without orgasms.

The first tip on how to sexually enjoy each other without orgasms is to give one another a massage. You'll start by having your partner strip naked and lie down on a massage table, bed or couch. Have your massage oils ready, and pour them down their back liberally. You can choose warming oils that will instantly give them a feeling of warmth and pleasure. As the oil begins to move down their back, begin to gently rub it in.

When giving a sensual massage, the key is to work slowly. You're not in any hurry, and I promise your partner isn't either! Work down their back, rubbing gently but firmly. You should be able to feel any areas that are especially tense, and will want to give them more attention. Typical tense areas are the shoulders and small of the back.

Another tip on how to sexually enjoy each other without orgasms is to perfect your oral sex technique. Let's face it, oral sex feels good regardless of where it leads. For a woman who's going down on her man, you'll want to start at the bottom of his shaft, slowly licking up to the tip of his penis. Flit your tongue around the head before taking it into your mouth and running your tongue around the entire head and shaft of his penis.

If a man wants to know how to sexually enjoy each other without orgasms by going down on his lady, he'll want to start by fingering her until she's nice and wet. Flavored oils can be a nice addition as well. He'll then run his tongue around her clit, being careful not to touch it right away. As you feel her begin to get wetter, to moan and to push up into your face, you'll start to gently lap at her clit. Once you get her this excited, her body is likely to direct you on it's own.

Many couples find that watching pornography is a good option for how to sexually enjoy each other without orgasms. If one or both partners isn't able to perform a specific sex act, it can be very arousing to watch others do so in pornography. There are many types of pornography out there, and you want to be sure that you're choosing something that's arousing to both of you. Many times these movies will focus solely on the man's pleasure, which isn't always the favorite of women.

When you're learning how to sexually enjoy each other with orgasms, one of the most important things to do is to focus on communication. Your partner isn't a mind reader and they won't always know just what you need. Remember that any time they go down on you or do anything sexual to you, they're doing it to please you. They would likely love the opportunity to get some insight into what can better please you.

It can also be a good idea to write down a list of every sexual practice you can think of. You and your partner will then read through the list together, sharing which items on the list are things you're interested in trying in order to learn how to sexually enjoy each other without orgasms.



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