How to Pamper a Woman
When it comes to being pampered in a way that is going to be sensual and erotic, there is no person alive who does not like to be pampered. Women like to receive massages. They know that it is ten times more enjoyable when it is being done by their partner. Massages can be done for various reasons. They can be used for an end of the day stress reliever after a hard day at the office or just before you are getting ready to make love to your partner.
Pampering her through touch therapy pr massage:
You will need a few things to aid you in your massage. Purchase a nice scented massage oil that does not absorb into the skin too quickly. This will allow the oil to last longer while you are making your fingers do the magic. When you are choosing scented oil be make sure that the scent of the oil is not too overwhelming it will take away the mood of what you are trying to accomplish if she smells like an air freshener half way through your massage. A nice aroma therapy candle would be perfect for such an occasion.
Make sure that the atmosphere is just perfect. Again as mention above aromatherapy can be the perfect tool in accomplishing this. If aroma therapy is not your thing then you might want to give incense a try. This will as well help you create a most relaxing atmosphere.
Let the fingers do the magic. With your partner lying on her back you will want to make sure that she is in a comfortable position. Now smooth some oil in your hands before you put it onto her back. Putting oil on her back with it not at the right temperature make her jump or be startled and take her out of that relaxed state that you have worked to accomplish. Now gently smooth the oil all over her entire back in smooth wide stokes, with the flat part of your hand. Please be careful you do not want to kneed her body to roughly because you may do more harm than good. And she does not want to feel like she is bread getting ready to be baked.
Working your way from the back of her neck to her shoulders, be careful not to "squeeze" her neck because again you may do more harm than good. Be soft and gentle. You want to use a touch that will in a sense "tease her" and make her senses heightened though your touch.
Stretch out her arms and massage her biceps lightly with your fingertips. Work the back on either side of the spinal cord, but never push deeply on the spine itself. Use upward strokes laterally along the spine until you reach her tailbone. Feel free to tease the area around the base of the spine because it contains many sensitive nerve endings.
After made some magic on her back and arms, work your way down to her legs, especially her inner thighs because they are incredibly sensitive. Her legs should be given special care. You don't have to be as cautious as with her back, but still remain gentle. Rub her legs one section at a time, starting at her thighs, moving to her calves and finally ending at her feet. Don't stay on the feet too long or she'll get too relaxed and sleepy.
Doing a few routine things for her can be pampering:
Not only romantic things fall on the category of pampering. You can also help her to lighten up her daily load by helping her on her chores like, doing the laundry, washing the dishes, walking the dogs, watering the plants, cooking food, bringing the kids to school. Sometimes men would say that those are womanís job but marriage is partnership and sharing. You will not do all the chores, just help her doing it.
Spoil her for an evening:
Surprise her with a dinner at home. Prepare a dinner for two in your house, cook her favorite foods and buy her favorite wine. Give also a small gift, a cheap one but can make her smile. Spend the night with a light music. Take her to a sweet dance while your favorite song is being played. But if you really donít know how to cook, you can take her out to her favorite restaurant. Before going to sleep, make sure that you give her a bubble bath. Put some scented relaxing candles lit on the bathroom. Let her soak in the water, you can join her if you want to. If not, prepare the bedroom and make sure that it is clean and dim lighted. Light some aromatic candles to make it more romantic. Massage her with scented aromatherapy oil while the soft music is going. Iím sure sheíll give you a reward for the effort.
Finally, ask her what she wants!
Men always assume that they really know their partner. But at the end, she was just waiting for you to ask what she really wants.