Abby's Sexual Health

Sexual Health & Happiness Through Education, Communication, and Experimentation

   Home   |   Shop    |   Ask Abby    |   Affiliates    |   Advertise

Sexual Health Female Body Libido Orgasms Penis Info Pregnancy Sexually Transmitted Diseases   Bookmark and Share Link to Us
Sex & Masturbation Anal Sex Female Ejaculation Female Masturbation Foreplay Male Masturbation Oral Sex Sex Positions Sexual Intercourse
Keeping Sex Fun Adult Videos Adult Websites Bondage Fetish Lingerie Personals Relationships Sex Toys More Fun  

Sexual Health

Search Abbys

Advice

Articles

How To Videos

How To Guides

Resources

Reviews

Techniques

Sex Dictionary

Shop Abbys

Adult DVDs

Bondage Shop

Couple's Boutique

Gay Mall

Sex Toys

Sexy Clothing

Video Downloads

Video on Demand

Most Popular

Aphrodisiacs Reviewed

Male Enhancement Reviews

Female Masturbation
Video Interviews

Male Masturbation
Video Interviews

Sponsor

Sex ShopMall

How to Meet Via Online Dating


Online dating or Internet dating is a dating system which allows individuals, couples and groups to make contact and communicate with each other over the Internet, usually with the objective of developing a personal romantic or sexual relationship. It has become a very big part of our society in the last few years. The biggest part to the online dating process is actually meeting a person face to face for the first time.

In order to make you feel a little more confident and comfortable in meeting someone new for the first time, here are some things to think about that may make your first meeting go a little more smoothly.

Attention to Appearance, Feelings and Expectations at First Meeting: What is the first thing that you think of when you are preparing to get ready to meet someone for the first time? The answer to this question could differ between men and women, but most often we are concerned with our physical appearance. The majority of men and women know that first impressions are usually the most important element to meeting someone new. Consequently, we tend to take extra care in how we look, feel, and even smell for that first initial meeting. But as we take our appearance into consideration, we should also pay attention to our feelings and expectations of meeting this person.

Control over your nervousness: Most of us have experienced extreme nervousness about that first meeting. This is perfectly normal human behavior. One of the main reasons we get nervous is because we worry about what the other person may think of us. We could be concerned with what we are going to wear, how we look physically to that person, or even how our personality comes across. These factors can leave us feeling overwhelmed and influence our decision to cancel the date. In this case, we are liable to make up excuses for breaking the date, or we may even choose to just not show up! All of us have felt these emotions, and some of us have even pulled a no-show so that we donít have to deal with our anxiety. You could be passing up the chance of a lifetime by letting your fear conquer your desire to meet this person!

Tell Your Friends Where You Will Be: It is very important to let someone know where you'll be, especially if you are a woman. For your personal safety, tell someone close to you that you are going out on a date with someone you met online!

Take Different Means of Transportation: Plan to take your own car, or use some other means of transportation to get to your destination. You should never accept someone to pick you up at your home or work that you have only met online.

Choose a Nice Public Place to Meet for the First Date: The best place to meet someone for the first time would be a Coffee Shop, or some quiet Cafť where you two are able to talk and feel comfortable that you are in a public place.

Greeting the Other Person for the First Time: Most often, if you have spent a considerable amount of time getting to know someone, then you are more than likely going to feel very comfortable hugging that person when you first meet. A woman may even feel comfortable enough to kiss a man on the cheek, where as a man may feel more comfortable just touching the women on her arm or her shoulder.

What to Talk and What not to: It is advisable that you read over their profile again before you meet. This will allow you to concentrate on what's important to that person, and what that person is most passionate about.

Be Honest and Truthful: You should always be very honest about who you are and what you are all about in your profile. Never pretend to be something or someone that you are not.

Break Those Barriers of Shyness: In this case, it's important to do whatever you can to make that person feel comfortable and safe. Some people get very nervous if they are stared at for more than a few seconds. They may feel as though their personal space has been invaded, or they are being critically analyzed, or maybe even attacked for not being so talkative. Try to act relaxed, and don't make them feel bad for being shy.

Ending the Date: If you had a good time with the other person, remember to tell them at the end of your date. This not only lets them know that you enjoyed being with them, but it also tells them that you would possibly be receptive to a second date. But, if you didnít have a good time, tell them it was nice to meet them. This usually tells the other person that they are not interested in a second date.



NEW: Abby's Sex-Ed Video Theater

181 "How to" videos to watch now, download for later, or order DVD!
Male enhancement
products and aphrod-
isiacs for women are featured and reviewed by me and my team.
Video interviews

of real women about female masturbation, female ejaculation, sex toys, and more.
Video interviews

of real men about their masturbation history, and techniques.

Proactol

Bookmark Page:

Site Map


© 2001- 2018 Abbys-Sexual-Health.com