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How to Make Safe Sex Sexy


Whether you're concerned with pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases, having safe sex is a must. However, at times it can be awkward and can take you out of the moment. If you get a little creative and are sure to plan ahead, any couple can make it sexy. Following are a few tips for how to make safe sex sexy.

How to Make Safe Sex Sexy : Tip 1 Be Prepared

The best way to make sure that you don't kill the mood is to have your condoms or contraceptives close at hand. You don't want to go down on each other for an hour, finally be ready for intercourse, and find that one of you has to run to the corner store for condoms. Leave your tools in a drawer close to the bed for easy access.

How to Make Safe Sex Sexy : Tip 2 Make it Fun

You can also work to find fun alternatives to safe sex practices. For example, flavored or colored condoms can add some fun to your sex life. You'll want to be sure that nothing you buy puts your safety at risk in order to be fun. Carefully read the information on the packages to be sure that it doesn't say they are for entertainment purposes only. After all, there's no point in wearing a condom if it's not going to protect you.

How to Make Safe Sex Sexy : Tip 3 Watch Pornography

In the past, people in porn movies almost never wore condoms or practiced safe sex. For many men who grew up watching these movies, a large part of the reason that they don't associate safe sex with being sexy is because it was never a part of their sexual fantasies. These days, more and more actors are responsible and incorporate condoms into their movies. Try watching these movies to retrain your brain and realize that safe sex can indeed be sexy.

How to Make Safe Sex Sexy : Tip 4 Mix It Up

One of the surest ways to become bored with your sex life is to do the same thing time after time. Make sure that you're trying out many different kinds of condoms, from warming, to ribbed, to different materials like lambskin. Making condoms a part of your experimentation can help to make them feel sexier. Of course if you find one option that works best for you and your partner, it will likely be your stand by. However, be sure to occasionally use something else just to try something new.

How to Make Safe Sex Sexy : Tip 5 Lube It Up

One of the best ways to make safe sex sexy is to use lube. There are several reasons this helps. First of all, it will add lubrication which can make the sensations of sex even more pleasurable. Second of all, it will give you an excuse to come away from your sex for a moment or two. When you go to grab a condom, grab your lube as well. Instead of thinking that the break in your sex play was all about safe sex, you can begin to associate it with the pleasure of a good lube. This can trick your brain into actually looking forward to putting the condom on.

The bottom line is that safe sex is necessary. Any amount of awkwardness or discomfort you initially feel is better than the alternative. However, there are some ways that you can make the experience sexy. Be sure to keep your mind open and keep trying new things, and eventually you won't think twice about stopping to put a condom on.



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