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How to Know Your Date is Ready for Sex


When you're enjoying yourself on a hot date and want to take it to the next level, it can be difficult to figure out how to know your date is ready for sex. You don't want to push them into something they're not ready to do, and you don't want to try only to end up rejected. But how do you know that it's time to take it to the next level? Understanding the way a woman responds to arousal is one of the best ways to know when to make your move.

Before you move on to having sex, you need to engage in plenty of foreplay. One step in how to know your date is ready for sex is when she's responding enthusiastically to foreplay. Start by giving her deep, long and soulful kisses. Rub the back of her neck and run your fingers through her hair. When you feel her start to push against you, or gasp for air, it's likely that she's ready for the next step.

After your making out has reached its apex and it's time to figure out how to know your date is ready for sex, try rubbing her breast through her shirt. If she responds positively and gives you signs that she's into it, you'll move your hand under her shirt and bra to get direct skin on skin contact. On the other hand, if she pulls away from you or starts to seem distracted, it's likely that she's not quite ready.

Of course one of the best ways for you to learn how to know your date is ready for sex is to ask her. However, this can be an awkward conversation that might bring you out of your frenzied feelings during a make out session. One idea is to discuss it with her when you're not engaged in foreplay. Bring it up over dinner or when you're having a long talk on the phone. Tell her that you're ready, that you want her, and ask her if she's ready for the next step.

While talking about it outside of the heat of the moment is more comfortable for many people, sometimes it's simply not an option. If you've got her alone in a bed and you're wondering how to know your date is ready for sex, you can try asking her in an indirect way. For example, if you're at her home, you might ask her if she has any condoms. Asking her in this way is a clear indication of your motives that gives her an easy way to say no if she's not quite ready.

When you're first learning to understand how to know your date is ready for sex, you might feel awkward or feel that you're not the best at reading her cues. However, keep in mind that it gets easier with time. Any time you get rejected and feel foolish, take the time to consider what signs she was giving off. Learn from them and don't make the same mistake next time. Likewise, when you find success, take note of the clues you followed that got you where you wanted to go.

The most direct way to figure out how to know your date is ready for sex is to simply ask her. However, this can put her on the spot or be uncomfortable for the both of you. Try following her signs and moving things along incrementally, eventually moving up to sex. You can also try asking her less obvious questions, such as what is her favorite position to start with, or if you should bring condoms on your next date.



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