How to Know You Are Sexually Compatible
Besides, it’s much more fun discovering your sexual compatibility rather than making a determination based on three labels. Why let a position preference cool off what could be a blazing bedroom adventure? Here are three steps to discovering your sexual compatibility.
Dig Your Inner Desires: Pleasure in pairs is best when each partner knows what suits them best solo. Spend time getting to know your own desires. Don't be bashful. Dig deep. What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. Explore your own body and experiment until you reach your limit, then try to go a step further. What will result is a combination of things you knew you liked, things you never thought you’d like but do now, and things you can do without.
A Sexual Mission with Your Partner: Now that you're no longer lost on the solo path to pleasure, go on sensual mission with your partner. The purpose of this excursion is for you and your man to explore each other. Keep in mind: This is an interactive mission. Take turns talking about what you like, then demonstrate or guide each other on how to get it done.
Dig For New Sexual Findings: The next step in your adult game of show and tell is to challenge each other to a new game of hide and seek. Take turns finding ways to pleasure each other that neither of you have previously thought of. Push your sexual limits. Create a "safety" word or phrase that lets your partner know when he's going too far. "Not there," "I don't like that," or "Oh no" work great. At last, take a deep breath, count to three, and enjoy the process of achieving infinite levels of intimacy.
A few more things to know about sexual compatibility:
We, sometimes instantly feel strong sexual chemistry with someone when we first see him or her and other times sexual chemistry can sneak up on us very slowly. We may like the person, enjoy their company, and we have a lot in common but that spark is missing. That special feeling isn’t there. Then one day we come to the realization that we are very sexually attracted to him or her.
Other times, we feel the chemistry with someone and then when we get to know the person, the sexual chemistry and attraction goes away. With the tons of books on reading sexual attraction postures, gestures and facial cues and even with all that "we know" about men-women dynamics, many men and women still can't figure out if there is sexual compatibility between two people or not.
We misinterpret sexual signals because there are other energies emitting on the same frequency that tend to interfere with our ability to correctly read someone else's sexual body language. There are sexual attraction signals that your conscious mind could never tell you, because these signals are operating at a higher frequency range. We can call it the sub-conscious range.
The sexual instincts that you have – Just follow them:
The ability to utilize your intuition is a crucial factor in sexual attraction, since sexual attraction happens at the sub-conscious level. Because your body senses threat or danger before your mind does, your intuitive mind or gut feeling can pick up those aspects of sexual attraction which vibrate at a higher frequency range and steer you to the right move at the right time. Disregarding your own powerful inner feelings and relying on some “expert’s moves” destroys your own ability to think for yourself.
With practice, you'll naturally be able to tune into someone else's sexual frequencies and set off powerful sexual chemistry. It just becomes part of you, something you do without even trying.