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How to Give a Woman a Hand Job


As you're working on becoming a better lover, one of the first lessons you'll need to learn is that no two women are the same. The best way to know how to give a woman a handjob is to simply ask her, “What feels good?” or “How would you like me to touch you?” The problem though, is that not all women will feel comfortable discussing their sexual preferences. As a result, you must be sure to have some skills of your own.

Step one in how to give a woman a handjob is to take plenty of time for foreplay. You can't simply touch a woman's gentiles, without preparing them, and expect her to enjoy the feelings. Take plenty of time for kissing, playing with her breasts and massaging her body. Look for other erogenous zones, such as the back of the knees or the nape of the neck. The longer you work to get her aroused before you touch her, the more success you'll have.

As you're working on figuring out how to give a woman a handjob, you'll need to learn to follow her cues. Much of your experience will be trial and error. You'll touch various parts of her body in different ways, to see what most excites her. However, you must be able to tell when she's excited. When you're working on the foreplay step, pay attention to the sounds she makes and her breathing. When you touch the right spot, you might hear a sharp intake of breath, her breathing increase or a moan.

Once you're ready to get started working on how to give a woman a handjob, you'll want to begin to explore her sex. Feel for a small nub in her pubic area. This is her clitoris, and is likely the most sensitive part of her body. Most women prefer to have their clitoris stimulated over penetration, so it's essential that you work hard to touch her correctly.

Start off by rubbing your fingers softly in a circular motion around her clitoris. Because the clitoris is so sensitive, it's easy to over do, especially if she's not fully aroused. Be gentle at first. You'll notice that the more aroused she gets, the wetter she'll feel and the harder and more engorged her clitoris will be. When you feel her start to breathe more heavily or hear her moan, you can start speeding up and varying your technique.

When you're learning how to give a woman a handjob, you'll need to understand that to get a woman off, you need to establish a rhythm. However, you must first find out what this rhythm should be. You'll have started going in circles around her clitoris. When she starts moaning and it's clear that she's enjoying what you're doing, start moving her clitoris side to side, or up and down. Keep trying new techniques until she indicates that you're doing it right, by pushing her body into you, asking you for more or simply moaning loader.

Once you're pretty sure you've discovered how to give a woman a handjob with either circular, up and down or side to side friction, you'll want to establish a rhythm. It's OK to vary this rhythm by moving faster as she becomes more aroused, but you don't want to vary the technique or begin moving slower. To get a woman to achieve an orgasm, you must gently build her there. If you find that she's getting aroused and you take it down a notch, you're likely to lose her arousal altogether, and have to start over.



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